何时把他人的话反过来听？就是在他们散布流言之时。对于某些人来说，所有事情都是颠倒的：他们说“是”就是“不”，他们说“不”就是“是”。如果他们批评某物，其实就是对该物作了最高评价。他们想得到某些东西，就对别人贬低那些东西。赞扬某物也不一定就是说它好——有些人为了避免表扬好的，就去表扬坏的。有的人觉得什么都好，其实说明他觉得什么都不好。
when to change the conversation? when they talk scandal. with some all goes contrariwise: their no is yes, and their yes no. if they speak ill of a thing it is the highest praise. for what they want for themselves they depreciate to others. to praise a thing is not always to speak well of it, for some, to avoid praising what's good, praise what's bad, and nothing is good for him for whom nothing is bad.
