harry lincoln, of the meskwaki, has dictated the following free rendition of a meskwaki text written out in the current syllabary.
when a boy becomes old enough to be intelligent, his parents begin to teach him how to take care of himself and act righteously. they usually tell him not to do a good many things. children are taught not to be naughty. they are told that if they are naughty, people will have nothing to do with them. they are told that if they are naughty, people will talk about them. and children are told not to steal anything from their neighbors. moreover, children are taught not to talk to people. if they see any one going by their place, they should hold their tongues, nor should they laugh.
and they also tell children not to visit other people too often. “every time they see you going anywhere they would say that you are looking for something good to eat, if you go visiting too often,” is what children are told. so children do not often visit too much.
they likewise tell children not to gamble. they tell them that they might be lucky and win, but that it would not benefit them. and they tell them that it is just as bad to lose. they caution them in this way: “if you win, people will see your winnings and will try to get you to gamble. and if you do, you will surely lose all that you have won. and yet it is not right to be over-quiet. if you are quiet and well off, that is not quite right either. if you have a lot of horses, people will be jealous of you. some one might want some of your property, and you would not give it to him. that is how it will be.
“the best way is to be kindly to every one, to speak kind words, to treat your friends nicely, to keep your heart clean, and not to talk meanly. if you do this, you will have a number of friends. and when you are a young boy, do not fight with other boys. if any one speaks badly to you, do not answer him. let it go. this is one of the best things you can do. and if you see some one doing something, you must hold your peace; do not be the one to start the news. 82 do not tell what you saw him or her do. if you spread the report they will hate you. they will become your enemies.”
and there is another thing which boys are told. boys are told not to tattle to any one. they are told not to be too intimate with girls. it is not a right thing for a boy to do. they are warned: “if you do that, people will be jealous of you.”
and there is another thing they are warned. “when there are many people, when something is going on, don’t go over there, and try to show off. that will not benefit you. you may go to the crowd and see what is going on, but behave yourself. and if any one asks you a question, you are to tell the person that you know nothing about it. that is the best way to keep out of trouble.”
and there is another thing which young men are told, which is: “if some one asks you to do a favor, you must always do it for him. some time in the near future they will come around again and ask another favor of you. if you refuse, you straightway will begin to have trouble. but you should always do a favor for any one, so as to please them.”
and another thing, young men are told, not to fear ashes: “by fasting and painting your face with ashes, you may get a blessing from the manitou. if you do the right thing, you will surely be blessed. if you are afraid, the manitou will know it. people claim that fasting and blackening one’s face with ashes is one of the best things that they can do. in the early days it was said that if one fasted long to obtain a blessing from the manitou, he often went on the war-path successfully; or he killed people by fasting so long. such was the blessing the person obtained. and you can go and kill game easily. you may become a leader in anything. if there is a war you may become a leader. and you will always bring your men back safe and sound. they will not be killed by the enemy. you will surely be blessed by the manitou if you take an interest in fasting, and are not afraid of doing so. after you have fasted long enough, if you desire anything, you will obtain it. so fasting is the right thing to do. and if you do this, you must get up early—before our grandfather, the sun, rises. if anything happens to people where you are, after a few years, nothing will happen to you: you will not be destroyed. this is the only way you can live again. all the people will be benefited by you. this is the best life there is.” and this is why children are taught to fast.
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boys are told that if they see an animal they must not destroy it. for if they destroy animals, they themselves will not live very long. boys are also taught to be good hunters.
boys are taught nearly everything so that they can get along nicely with their wives after they are married. they are told that if they are hustlers many girls will wish to marry them.
of course this is after they have grown to be young men. up to that time they are merely made to fast. and by fasting, is how they reach old age. also children are made to fast when any one dies. and they also tell children not to make a noise when some one dies; and not to play where the body is. and they tell boys not to refuse if they are asked to do something. “if you do what people who have lost their relatives ask you, they will be well satisfied with you. and some day you will exchange positions. if you ask them a favor at that time, they will willingly do it,” is what boys are told.
and this is what boys are told when they are growing up: “if you are asked to be a ceremonial attendant at clan festivals, you must do it. by doing them the favor of waiting on them, you will benefit your own life. and any time you are asked to do anything you must always do it, so as to please the people.”
and after they grow up, they are told not to bother too much with girls, especially if they have sisters of their own. they are told, “sometime you may be desired as a son-in-law. but if you bother with many girls, while going with one, they will think you are a nobody.” and they tell boys not to be intimate with girls unless they plan to marry them. they are told, “you must not say anything evil to women: if you do, you will be talking evilly to your own sisters.
“and if you are going with a girl, if you are engaged to her, you must marry her, and treat her rightly. you must go home with her and stay with your father-in-law and your mother-in-law. you must treat them as nicely as you can. and you should hunt for your mother-in-law and your father-in-law. if you treat your wife meanly, every one will talk about you. and that will make it bad for you. at all gatherings people will talk about you, saying how badly you treat your wife. the people will say many things about you, though you may not know it. they will say you are jealous. and in that way people will always refuse you favors. you will be treating your wife badly, if you pay no attention to the old people.
“you must obey your parents. it is the right thing to obey one’s 84 parents. and boys who do not obey their parents are the worst boys to-day.
“if you know any one has something of his own, you must not ask him for it, nor must you steal it. it is not right to steal. if you steal or ask for the thing you want, all the people will be afraid of you. you are nothing but a beggar. every one will say that to you. they will call you a beggar.”
now when boys are beginning to be grown up, they are told: “you must not turn against your friends; you must be kind-hearted. and you must not bother with any woman or girl who is married to another man. you should not try to ‘cut him out.’ it is dangerous to do that.” this is one of the most important things they try to get boys to understand. by doing what is forbidden they might get into trouble; and they might end their lives. many boys end their lives before they are middle-aged by not listening to their parents.
and girls are taught a little differently from boys. of course they tell girls, in the beginning, the same thing, that is, how to take care of themselves. they teach girls that if they obey the rules they will have an easier life as they grow older. after they are old enough they teach them how to do things. and they also make them fast. they are asked to fast so that adversity shall not strike them when they grow up. they make girls fast for four days. they make them fast all winter, especially when they are beginning to be young ladies. the reason why they make them fast is that they are supposed to dream of something that will take them through their life. that is why they do not take regular meals like others, to prepare for a long life.
and they teach them to do something for themselves, especially when they grow up. they teach them work, suitable for women. they teach them to learn to make mattings and how to make sacks. they also teach them how to make moccasins and beadwork. girls are told that they can get along nicely if they learn these things before they are married. they are told, “you will be benefited by doing this for your husband. your relatives will be benefited by you.”
and girls are told: “if you are a moral girl, your father-in-law and mother-in-law will treat you as nicely as they can. and they will love you. if you are quiet and well-behaved, you will be much better off than those girls who do not mind. men do not care for girls who do not mind and who are immoral. if you do not mind 85 and are immoral, no man will have you for his wife.” that is why girls are taught to be good.
after they learn to make things, they are taught to cook meals. girls are told that by doing so, they are leading themselves the right way. “by so doing you are leading yourself an easy way. sometime you may grow up and make your own home.” that is why girls are told to be willing workers.
and girls are told not to go off and live with other people. of course people would like a girl to live with them a few days. but a few days later they might turn her out, especially if she were lazy. people do not wish to support a lazy person. this is why girls are taught to cook.
and after they are married, girls are especially told not to say anything about other persons, and not to feel unfriendly towards them. and they are told not to have any quarrels with other people, for that is not a right thing to do. they are told to be kind towards the people and not to have quarrels with any one. “this is the best way, to be friendly with every one. by so doing, the people will feel kindly towards you. they will always say a good word for you. people do not think anything of a mean person. if you are mean, some day some one will turn against you. some persons are dangerous. they have secret ways to kill people.” this is why girls are told not to be mean, or say mean things to other persons. and some girls hate their parents for telling them this. but it is a rule that children should be taught. the reason parents tell girls this, is because they love them so well. they are teaching them so they can attain an old age. girls who were not taught, do anything they please. they do not care what they do. they spoil themselves.
girls are supposed to be taught till they are married. after a girl is married, she has full control of herself, and may do whatever she thinks best. but it is best to follow the rules forever, to be kind to one’s husband and the people. it is pretty hard to lead a righteous life.
when girls begin to have children they are told to be kind to their children and love them, and not to do anything bad to them. and they are taught that if they live quietly to an old age, they themselves will be the only relations they have.
and before children are well grown, they dare not go any place by themselves. of course boys are different: they can go any place 86 they please. and girls dare not do so, unless they have a good reason for it. they are taught to always be at home and do the work. they are told: “if you grow to be a young lady, if you walk around and do not do any work, people will not think anything of you. they will always talk about you. they will say that all you are good for, is to walk from place to place. they will say you are looking for a place to get your meals. they will say that you are looking for a place where you can get the finest food. they will say many things about you. they will even say that you are worse than a man. every time you are on the road they will say, ‘there goes a woman who goes about looking for good meals for herself.’” that is the reason why they desire a girl to be able to do things so that she can support herself after she is grown. that is why they tell girls to obey their parents. their parents have had good experience and know what they are talking about.
and when girls arrive at puberty, they are told not to marry a divorced man. they are told to marry a young man. in the early days, people used to say to each other when girls married divorced men: “it is not natural for a girl to marry a divorced man, nor for a young man to marry a divorced woman.” they told girls that if they married young men, that they would be benefited by getting horses, and so on. and a girl is told to look around and get the right kind of a boy. in the early days, they liked boys who killed game, trapped, sold furs, and so got money; but nowadays they tell girls to look around for boys that have horses, homes, everything they want. they say, “that’s the right kind of a young man to marry—one that can support you.”
girls are also told: “when you are staying with your father-in-law and with your mother-in-law, you are supposed to help them in their work. when your mother-in-law begins doing anything, you must ask her if you may do it.” a girl is taught this so that she can get along nicely after she is married. girls are told: “if you don’t do these things, people will talk about you, and say how lazy you are. and people will not like you.” this is the reason why a girl is taught all manner of work.
and all girls are taught the same things. and in this way, they lead themselves the right way.
truman michelson
